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Sunday, February 1, 2009

Helpful Advice on Relationships

By Steve Carter

Yes, a relationship between two people, when it's all working correctly, can be a wonderful thing. However, most people accept that in their relationship there is always 'room for improvement'. This leads many people to seek out advice on discovering ways to keep their relationship exciting, or possibly recreate that initial spark that could have faltered somewhat.

There are many different approaches one can take to improving his or her relationship. However, sometimes it is difficult to devise those strategies on your own. Never fear, there is plenty of relationship advice out there to be had. That said, don't think all advice is 'good advice' - advice is very personal and subjective; what appears to work for some people doesn't necessarily work for others. The key factor to consider in taking advice is be guided by what experience others have had from the person giving the advice. Always try to 'take advice' from someone who has been recommended.

Below is some advice from us on what we've learned about relationships in the form of 5 quick tips:

Tip #1: Take the time to write down all the wonderful things that you love about your partner. Then, pull it out and read it when you are having a rough spot. Reading about the positives will help motivate you to put more effort into your relationship.

Tip #2: If you get into an argument try to focus on avoiding negative statements such as "You never.." or "You always...". These type of statements are unfair and will get you nowhere with your partner. You should think of positive ways to voice your concerns, and use "I" statements.

Tip #3: Take the time to send a text message or an email to your partner that simply says, "I love you". The smallest gesture can often mean the most.

Tip #4: Try to wait for a good time to talk through serious issues with your partner. Things will go much more smoothly if your partner is not irritated, tired or disgruntled.

Tip #5: Be clearm, a successful relationship takes consistent effort from both partners. Relationships are always a work in progress.

You may know successful couples, in a relationship or marriage, who may be able to offer you advice on relationships. Many times, you will probably hear some of the same advice or tips that were offered above. You will need to decide which pieces of advice you think will work for you and your partner, and then apply them.

The interesting thing is that if your partner loves and respects you, he or she will likely follow your lead and begin to be more positive, loving and communicative. This is a win-win situation for both involved. - 20611

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